Where To Pickup Women

on these following cases:
a. when she said something that has bruised your ego
b. you were making a pass at her and na’basted’ ka
c. she mongered a rumor against you
d. she did not pay her utang to you
e. others. please specify

and how will you retaliate?
a. you’ll sue her in court
b. troll her
c. slap her
d. challenge her in ’sabunutan’
e. others. pls specify

{this Q is not addressed to men of different culture where women are relatively treated as men’s equal}

sexual relations? Last weekend I had a date with a man. We went out to eat, and then went down to the beach and made out for a half an hour, maybe more. I took him back to my place thinking that we’d pick up where we left off. He got angry with me and told me I only wanted to use him for sex. Why would he do this when he acted so willing and eager for it on the beach?

Ok i’ve been told and have seen over the years that those who generalize an entire people or ethnicity are jerks and the list of names goes on. ok so don’t tell me i already know. Now my question about 13 years ago I started dating and got with a very odd woman she was disliked by everyone that came in contact with her. she was seen as a lier and something worse well i didn’t know what was worse and i didn’t understand how talking to her for a few minutes made her a lier. I was very much dumb in the way of human interaction all i know is if someone was hurt help them if someone was sick make them better and if someone needed you help them i did my job well as a CNA.
well this girl walked up to me and didn’t ask but told me to be at this address at this time. so i did i know dumb. Well i dated her and after a time ended up marrying her after all no one else seemed to want to go out with me. i kicked myself for years after i found out what flirting was from women. i know once more that is sad but still. now then. after our first year of marriage she stopped cleaning house when i was working and starting acting strange her kids was scared of her all the time. a few months after that started i ended up getting sick bad sick. when i had my first episode of a heart attack like symptoms and my family rushed me to the hospital i had rat poison and some other unknowns in my system well i divorced her quickly and worked with the kids dad to get his kids the county nearly denied him but she then tried to kill them they where comatose for a bit and he got them. so we cheered and had a party for the kids. needless to say my idea of saying surprise me when asked what do i want to eat and telling her that she is a human being if you want to go do something fun do it. seems to be a bad answer toward people.
Well for 12 years i generalized and refused to date after all women tried to kill me i stopped and looked at it and come to the conclusion that not women but a woman did and i shouldn’t generalize i did that too much in my life and i missed out on some good friends that later turned out to be the nicest people i ever came across. i am thinking though i should ask because all my friends say you never give a woman a freedom to choose you put them on a short leash or it will happen again and again. that women are animals well not quite animals but if i have to sit back and tell someone what to do an adult woman then 1 she isn’t very smart and should be in a home and 2 she is nuts and i am scared of her. lol.
what is wrong with treating women with respect now if doing so gets this to happen again then i’m gonna go for another 13 years without dating after all my first attempt nearly killed me my second attempt was a disappointment didn’t realize women where just like men and some just wanted to get laid and run off. but now i know and i no longer generalize or stereotype women as being wholesome kind nice creatures they are one of the guys just softer to touch and so much more interesting to look at.
so why should i not treat a woman with respect and give her freedom to think for herself not all women are like that and not all men are either i have read bad stories about men to heck i have bad stories about both genders non romantic or dating but where i’ve seen people murder and harm both emotionaly and physicaly that alone should turn me against people and almost has but after this last attempt at dateing i kinda wanna give it a school boy try and see if i can’t at least take someone out to dinner and maybe watch a movie. i know with my lack of experiance that i probably won’t even get that far but i wanna give it a shot so how should i treat them not like crap i hope and how do you pick up a woman without giveing the wrong vibe of wanting nothing more than to get naked later on that night? i want someone i can treat with respect and will return it. and have no idea how to find someone like that. what do i look for how do i approach things like that is what i want answered. ok long story short question but asked so answer.

I was just watching that VH1 show the pick up artist, It was the first episode where all the nerds go into a party and screw up, then the pick up master goes in and talks to every single girl and gets all the attention and everything, and I can see why, he was confident and he looked better then all the other guys.

Im looking at that and Im think yeah, I wish i could do that, but all the dating tips i read for guys are just about how to get laid, What do I do If I actually want to talk to a girl and try to start a relationship, how do I meet women if I want that, Im not the kind of person who can just jump from women to women without caring

Am i screwed.

take it how you want , women that just sleep around, don’t carry themsleves well, have there chest hanging out and /or slepping with all of their friends ? and where do women pick this nasty habit up from ?

I’m trying to find a bar or club in this city where you can pick up a woman or where women go to be picked up. All I come across are the ones that want money to leave the bar with you.
Does anyone know a good place in Guangzhou?

I’d like to find a place where guys and women can discuss sex, but not a site where people go to get picked up or meet people. Just casual conversation about sex… a place where your questions don’t get removed for talking about orgasms or techniques or what you like/dislike, etc… A forum with activity where you don’t wait days for answers. Anyone?

So I a bisexual girl, but I have no idea where or how to approach women! I am so afraid of accidentally hitting on a straight girl. And I am not used to approaching people, so I don’t want to come off as creepy. Any advice for the novice?

Everyone says bars and clubs, but honestly who would want to pick up some nubile skank from a bar or club?

…in some form of groups. And there IS NOT ONE LEGITIMATE pick up literature or videos that show how to get a hot woman when she is in a GROUP !. They all make these things where they assume a hot woman will alone by herself and that is NEVER the case.
Go to any mall, club, bar, library, and you will never see a hot woman between 18-22 all alone. And if you see a hot woman you want break away for a second from her group, and you jump, she will notice it as desperate. Only exception is like a transportation situation like a bus, train, or plane, but except for the plane, you can’t say anything cause other people will hear what you are saying, while on a plane you have a right to talk.
Hot women between 18-22 are never ever alone. It’s a fact
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